Wednesday, June 18, 2003

Well lucky me! I have a room by myself here in level 2. I have a small window looking out to the traffic and I have 10 staff across my room. Cool!
Sigh, only wish I was a real manager instead! Well, beggers can't be choosers. So today I have experienced how a manager would feel like in a room. Damn.. I love this Dell keyboard. But actually I am just here to do some P&C work - DATA ENTRY!! hahah! I don't know how long I have to be here, but its kindda lonely here. My only source of interaction is my Sticky Note. Lunch time!

Lately my colik has been giving me some real life senario and ask me to comment on it. Being the helpful nature that I am and really busybody (Yes, yes.. I read "Dear Thelma" everyweek), I was more than willing to comment.

My husband has a thing for Asian women (we are both Caucasian), and I don't know how to handle it. Whenever we are out in public or watching TV and he sees Asian girls/women, he can't take his eyes off them. It makes me uncomfortable and really throws a damper on any outing. From the time he spots one, he is distracted. I had a good friend who is Chinese, but the friendship fizzled after I found out (from him) that he came on to her once when he'd been drinking. He developed a crush on a co-worker of his who is Japanese, but fortunately they no longer work together. I don't believe either of these women encouraged him in any way. I had never felt prejudice against Asians until I realized that my husband is fascinated by the women. Now his obsession has turned into my obsession. My stomach is in knots every time we are in the presence of an attractive Asian woman. In my husband's rise up the corporate ladder, he may inherit a secretary who is Asian, and it has become one of my biggest fears. I really don't think I will be able to handle it. This isn't far-fetched because we live in an area with a higher-than-average Asian population. I have talked to my husband very honestly about my feelings. He denies that he is obsessed, but denial is standard operating procedure where he is concerned. I know I can't change what type of women my husband is attracted to, but how can I learn to live with this?

My Comment to my Colik

Strangely she didn't found out about this when they were dating. But then again, this might happen after her marriage. Probably I think the guy is attracted to asian because
1. Porno action (Kobe Tai comes to mind)
2. Peer influence who has asian chick
3. Asian girls are good in bed mindset :)
4. Looking for a different taste...
5. Sex with wiffy is getting boring....

alot of factors involves, but probably its just another phase men go through in their mid live crisis. My say, don't sweat it, else get urself a asian guy... but they are smaller.. well get black dude or something.

So if you have a problem that need to be solved, just drop me an email. Dr Love is in the HOUSE!

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